This guide is here to help. It explores the main reasons why men try to remain friends with an ex and how they will behave in these situations. However, before we explore these reasons, I want to share this story with you. The truth will appear in black and white, more often than not. The guide below will help you figure out the most likely outcome he wants from staying in touch with you.
Is He Still In Love With His Ex? 7 Signs He Is NOT Over Her
10 Signs He May be Seeing Someone Else
You can quickly find out the truth about where your romance is headed with this tool. In his mind, he might just be enjoying himself, filling his boots, so to speak. Why would he leave behind that kind of fun to be single and forced to spend his nights alone? If you want some clarity from him, your first port of call should be to take sex off the table.
Should I Talk to My Ex or Stay Away?
What was the first reaction you had when your phone screen lit up, and the text from a name you knew all too well showed? Was it surprise? Were there hints of disgust or did your stomach do somersaults in delight? Were you nonchalant about it or did you stare blankly into space for a good couple of minutes, unsure of what to do or how to feel? A bombardment of questions start to flood your thoughts, as you try to logically figure out what intentions your ex could possibly have in contacting you, when he already has a new girlfriend.
He might just be using her and will break up with her in a couple of months, or he might end up turning her off and getting dumped. Watch this video to understand the process that your ex likely went though before breaking up with you and the process you need to guide her through to get her back…. So, what you need to do is get yourself ready to get on a phone call with her, get her to agree to meet up with you in person and then re-attract her at the meet up.